How does one succeed in life?
15.06.2025 05:31
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Does not procrastinate.
Is a man over 50 not married no kids a red flag?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Making more friends is a goal.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Were any US Generals hurt or killed yesterday in Damascus, Syria, yesterday 5/9/24?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Living to your full potential is a goal.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Do Indian guys like African girls?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Procrastinates a lot.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Why does a college girl cover her face with a scarf in Bangalore?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Hangs out with loser friends.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
How do I develop the patience to read books?
Ask yourself:
Losing 20kg is a goal.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
How did it feel to take your first gay BBC?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Why do most Indian women cuckold or cheat on their husbands?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
That's it for today.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
What I need from you?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.